I spoke to Lew after he fixed the hard lanching issue with WOT, thanks Lew. It seems like I have never been able to change the shift firmness in a way that I can actually feel the change. I have tried firm and now currently HARD options and doesn't seem to change anything. Here are the two crom files I have used and the last one is the one current on my trinity.
trinity_gm_can_gas-1r08h_update
trinity_gm_can_gas_1t08hl_update_786
Maybe there is a bug or I am smoking something or both
